I believe sometimes we refuse to have relationships with some people because we know they will challenge us to improve and expose us to different things. Whether its the lack of confidence in ourselves or refusal to leave our comfort zone.
Look at your current situation.. Then look at the person or people you’ve dated. Their influence or lack of influence is 50% of the reason you’re where you are today.
As Leaders and Changers we must challenge ourselves and surround ourselves with others that will teach, motivate and inspire us to improve.
Otherwise, I can assure you.. Five years from now.. You will be exactly where you are now or worst.